Why are you waiting?

You know, I think one of the things that makes me sad more than anything is lack of communication. On my part of others around me.

When brothers and sister in Christ have issues with one another, WHY don't they go to them and work the problem out? Isn't that what God told us to do? I guess I just don't understand how parents cane push communication on their kids, yet, won't communicate and work things out with each other.

The longer you leave a problem unsolved, the WORSE it's going to get. How can people not see this? It destroys relationships, friendships.....satan wants Christians to hold grudges and just have all kinds of issues with one another. Why do grown ups give into that? Sure, it might be hard to talk to another adult about an issue. But, helloooo....do parents not think it's hard for us kids to tell them when something is bothering us? It's not a one way thing. It's not just a "blood family" thing either...because, face it, your fellow Christians are your family too.

Why are you waiting? Why aren't you getting the problems out and solved so you can have all sorts of burdens lifted off your shoulders? You may not live to see another day. HOW many regrets would you leave this world with? How many things did you just let go, and not deal with?